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Tymur Levitin
Tymur Levitin
Teacher of the Department of Translation. Professional certified translator with experience in translating and teaching English and German. I teach people in 20 countries of the world. My principle in teaching and conducting lessons is to move away from memorizing rules from memory, and, instead, learn to understand the principles of the language and use them in the same way as talking and pronouncing sounds correctly by feeling, and not going over each one in your head all the rules, since there won’t be time for that in real speech. You always need to build on the situation and comfort.
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Why Separable and Inseparable Prefixes Confuse Learners

German verbs with prefixes are often taught in dry categories:

  • “These prefixes are always separable.”
  • “Those are always inseparable.”
  • “Here’s a list. Memorize it.”

That approach usually fails. It forces students to guess, not understand. The same prefix may behave differently — and suddenly the rules collapse.

Let’s look at two examples:

  • wiedersehen – “to see again” → separable
  • wiederholen – “to repeat” → inseparable

Same prefix. Different behavior. Why?

A Better Way: Listen First, Think Second

After 22 years of teaching, I rely on a two-part system that always helps students:

🎧 Step 1: Listen to the stress.
If the stress is on the prefix → it’s separable.
If the stress is on the root → it’s inseparable.

🧠 Step 2: Understand the meaning.
If the action is physical, directional → separable.
If it’s abstract, mental or verbal → inseparable.

It’s not a trick. It’s how the language actually behaves — even if most textbooks don’t explain it this way.

Let’s Hear the Difference

VerbPronunciationMeaningSeparable?
ǘbersetzenstress on überto ferry across✅ Yes
übersétzenstress on setzento translate❌ No
wíederholenstress on wiederto retrieve✅ Yes
wiederhólenstress on holento repeat❌ No
úmfahrenstress on umto run over✅ Yes
umfáhrenstress on fahrento drive around❌ No

The Second Filter: Physical vs. Mental Action

Now apply logic:

  • wiedersehen – “to see again” = physical event, possibly with movement → separable
    → Wir sehen uns morgen wieder.
  • wiederholen – “to repeat” = verbal action, no movement → inseparable
    → Könnten Sie das bitte wiederholen?
  • übersetzen –
    • ferry across = physical transfer → ǘbersetzen → separable
    • translate = mental processing → übersétzen → inseparable

The difference is real and meaningful.

Quick Table: How to Know

Ask YourselfIf Yes →Result
Is the stress on the prefix?Separable
Does the verb imply real-world movement?Separable
Is the action abstract or mental?Inseparable
Is the verb fused (no clear prefix)?Inseparable (e.g., verstehen)

And What About Exceptions?

Yes — German has them.
It’s not a rigid system. There’s always a footnote:

“und viele andere Fälle.”

But here’s the truth:

❝German is not a language of fixed tables. It’s a language of tendencies — with many ‘und viele andere Fälle’.
That’s why understanding meaning and rhythm gives you more clarity than memorizing every possible list.❞
— Tymur Levitin

Why I Teach This Way

I don’t ask students to guess if a prefix is separable.
I show them how to hear it — and how to see its logic.

Grammar rules are important.
But learning a language means seeing the patterns — and trusting your ear.

Once you do, you don’t need to memorize prefixes anymore.

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© Tymur Levitin — Founder, Director & Head Teacher
Levitin Language School / Start Language School by Tymur Levitin
Slogan: “Global Learning. Personal Approach.”

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