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Tymur Levitin
Tymur Levitin
Dozent der Abteilung für Übersetzung. Professionelle zertifizierte Übersetzer mit Erfahrung im Übersetzen und Unterrichten von Englisch und Deutsch. Ich unterrichte Menschen in 20 Ländern der Welt. Mein Prinzip beim Unterrichten und bei der Durchführung von Lektionen ist es, vom Auswendiglernen von Regeln wegzukommen und stattdessen zu lernen, die Prinzipien der Sprache zu verstehen und sie auf die gleiche Weise zu verwenden wie das Sprechen und die korrekte Aussprache von Lauten durch das Gefühl, und nicht jedes Mal im Kopf alle Regeln durchzugehen, da dafür beim echten Sprechen keine Zeit sein wird. Man muss immer von der Situation und der Bequemlichkeit ausgehen.
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Series: “Language. Identity. Choice. Meaning.”


🌐 Choose your language:

🔗 Read in Ukrainian / Читати українською
🔗 Read in Russian / Читать по-русски


📍 Introduction

This is not just a story about words.
It’s a story told by a grown man.
A teacher. A translator. A son.

And it started with a simple question from a student:

“What did he really mean when he called her a ‘she-wolf’?”

That’s where true translation begins — not with dictionaries,
but with understanding what was meant, not just said.
We’re not translating lyrics.
We’re translating the space between the lines.


🐺 The She-Wolf: a man’s voice about a grown woman

She’s just a lonely she-wolf,
Not every man can win her love.
She’s like a queen, untamed and free —
You can’t buy her, and you can’t break her.

This isn’t a boy singing.
Es ist ein man, speaking with silence, not control.
He doesn’t want to change her. He recognizes her.
She doesn’t beg. Doesn’t explain. Doesn’t play.
She just leaves — when she’s no longer seen.

And if you’ve ever met a woman like that,
you’ll never forget her.


🐱 The Cat: a young girl’s voice, talking to herself

What does she dream of
when tears fall on her lashes?
Another night without sleep…
and it hurts to smoke alone.

This is not a man’s voice.
This is a young girl, trying to understand her own sadness.
Still open, still hopeful, still raw.
Her pain is not yet shaped by silence.
She’s trying to speak it — with her whole body.

🔹 Note: In Russian, the original line is «Что ей снится…», nicht «О чём ей снится…».
“Что” is the idiomatic and poetic way to ask what she dreams — “о чём” would sound unnatural here.


🌍 Why it matters to language learners

Because language is not neutral.
A word in one language may carry respect, shame, tenderness, or pride in another.
And if you want to speak a language — truly speak it —
you must understand how it speaks you.

When a student says “she’s a she-wolf,”
does he mean she’s fierce? Untouchable? Mysterious? Sexual?
And if he says “my little cat,”
does he mean it playfully? Or is he crossing a line?

That’s why we don’t translate lyrics.
We translate the Emotionen behind them.


🎓 Translation comparison: “She-wolf” verse

When her ice melts before a heart that burns —
she’ll forget the pain of loneliness…

LanguageTranslationKommentar
🇬🇧 EnglishWhen her ice melts before a heart that burns…Preserves “before” structure. Better than “from” or “because of.”
🇩🇪 GermanWenn ihr Eis vor einem brennenden Herzen schmilzt…“Vor” = before; elegant, literal, neutral tone.
🇺🇦 UkrainianКоли її лід перед палаючим серцем розтане…Strong, poetic, visually powerful.
🇷🇺 RussianКогда её лёд перед сердцем горячим растает…Original line. Graceful and rhythmic.
🇪🇸 SpanishCuando su hielo se derrita ante un corazón ardiente…Emotional, rich. “Ante” is formal but effective.
🇫🇷 FrenchQuand sa glace fondra devant un cœur brûlant…Smooth, distant, poetic.
🇯🇵 Japanese彼女の氷が燃える心の前で溶けた時、孤独の痛みを忘れるだろうDeeply evocative, poetic, layered with cultural nuance.

🎵 Translation comparison: “What does she dream of?” (Face2Face)

What does she dream of,
when tears fall on her lashes?

LanguageTranslationKommentar
🇬🇧 EnglishWhat does she dream of…Clear, slightly soft.
🇩🇪 GermanWovon träumt sie, wenn Tränen auf ihren Wimpern liegen?Very precise, yet distant.
🇺🇦 UkrainianЩо їй сниться, коли сльози на її віях?Lyrical, alive, musical.
🇷🇺 RussianЧто ей снится, когда слёзы на ресницах?Idiomatic, touching, tender.
🇪🇸 Spanish¿Con qué sueña cuando las lágrimas caen sobre sus pestañas?Passionate, flowing.
🇫🇷 FrenchÀ quoi rêve-t-elle quand des larmes coulent sur ses cils ?Soft and poetic.
🇯🇵 Japanese彼女のまつげに涙がある時、彼女は何を夢見ているの?Feels like haiku. Poetic restraint.

🧭 The contrast: She-Wolf vs Cat

ImageVoiceGenerationPositionEmotion
🐺 She-WolfMan about womanMaturity“I respect her”Strength, silence
🐱 CatGirl about herselfYouth“I want to be held”Sadness, vulnerability

💡 For language learners

  • Words are never neutral.
  • Literal translation may distort emotional tone.
  • Grammar and syntax matter — but context matters more.
  • Language is music. Meaning lives in rhythm and hesitation.
  • Translation is not copying — it’s choosing.

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💙 Dedication

🔹 This article is dedicated to my mother — Emma Yurievna Levitina.
A woman who never played roles,
never pretended, never asked for anything.
She did what she believed was right.
Always.

I don’t know if it made me better or worse —
but I am who I am.
Because she raised me that way.
And I wouldn’t be any other.


© Tymur Levitin. Alle Rechte vorbehalten.
Author’s Column by Tymur Levitin — founder, director and head teacher of Levitin Language School.

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